Yesterday evening, about 7pm in full
daylight, I was jogging home from the Birley Centre. Two car
drivers slowed to blast their car horns as they passed while their passengers
screamed insults. This was followed by fading hysterical laughter as I jumped with
surprise and they sped away. This is a depressingly regular occurrence. Most of
my runs will be punctuated at least once and it’s wearying to say the least.
The highly original shout of ‘Run, Forrest!’ is most common, but I also get
personal attacks. I know I’ve got a ‘fat arse’. I’m running to get rid of it. I’m definitely not ‘too old for that' or 'darling’ and what the hell has it got to do with them anyway? Talking to other runners
gets resigned agreement and shrugs of ‘what can you do’. As anti-social
behaviours go, this one apparently has to be accepted but I don’t understand
why it happens in the first place.
The beepers obviously feel threatened in some
way or they wouldn’t feel the need to lash out but what is it about an overweight,
middle-aged woman jogging that inspires the blare of car or van horns and
yelling? Why not just ignore her?
It only seems to happen when there are two or
more males travelling together, presumably egging each other on for ‘courage’,
and they must have a vehicle so they can speed away safely before I can react.
There’s never the risk that I might catch up with a beeper. I was once yelled
at by a group of teenagers on bicycles, but again all males and able to make
their escape quickly had I fired back. This is why I believe the essential
motivation is fear. Other people walking, in their gardens or even sitting
outside the pub might swap nods and smiles or comment on the weather but they
don’t lob insults! Other runners, who simply by doing the same exercise are far
better qualified to critique me, never do.
Other criteria: 1) I must be alone or maybe
with one other female runner. I don’t remember it ever happening when I’m near
a male runner. Perhaps I’m mistaking ‘safety in numbers’ and it does happen to
lone male runners too - let me know! – but it seems that appearing to be
‘chaperoned’ keeps the beepers quiet. 2) The vast majority of beepers are young
or middle-aged. I could understand if it was purely older men, brought up in
more bigoted times, but that argument isn’t true.
Is it my apparent independence that is so
threatening – some throwback belief that women shouldn’t be out alone?
Is it simply that I’m exercising and they
don’t so I should be knocked back – guilt on the beepers part for their
laziness? But I don’t get beeped when I’m walking and that’s exercise too.
Is it the admittedly slightly ridiculous
sight of an unfit person jogging that tips beepers over the edge? Do fit
runners get the same abuse?
Seriously, what is the point?
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